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Should I be upset?

So, I was looking through my boyfriends computer to see what pics of me had had on it <nudes> just because I had forgotten what I had sent him and I found videos from where we had webcam sex when I was out of town. But he never told me he was recording it…so, should I say something to him about it or just let it go?

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Answer #1

He you two were to break up, he could show them ! so becarefuL ! :/

Answer #2

you should definitly talk to him, but just be careful not to create an arguement. if your happy for him to have the copies then thats fine but you should also be aware of the risk of them getting onto the net or someone else seeing them by mistake. this is the sort of things that can come back and bite you in the *ss if a relationship ends badly.

if you dont like the fact he has them then ask him to delete them, but in all fairness your his g/f and he finds you attractive and that was one of the risks that you too when you did stuff on cam. hope it turns out ok.

Answer #3

thanks for the advice everyone =] I talked to him and he apologized and said he would delete them if I wanted him to

Answer #4

Tell him to delete it! He should have told you that he was recording it. You dont have to yell at him, but just calmly tell him that it bothers you, and if he accepts how you feel, then he’ll delete it. :D

Answer #5

Well you had webcam sex hun. He’s a guy of course he’ll keep that kind of stuff. I don’t think it’s that big of a deal honestly

Answer #6

honestly if you dont want him having them then delete them and say something to him. if you guys ever break up and he gets mad at you he might want to use them against you or something ignorant like that ya know. if your fine that he has them then its whatever but thats ilegal. especially if you dotn know about it when its happeneing.

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