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Why can't I make my girlfriend have an orgasm?

ok i cant make my gf cm i hav tried like 3 times and i cant…she says that she stops me before b/c shes scared to she said that after i got like upset i guess bc f**king im suppose to be good at that sht and i was wondering wtf was up…she has been picking on me about not makeing her cm like forever before last night…and i got upset so then she wanted to tell me stuff like…guys cant make girls cm with oral and fingers only one of her friends has been able to and it took her bf 6 hrs.(unbelvible) to do it…and when that did like i guess cheer me up she said that i could have but she stops me each time b.c she has never cummed before and is kinda scared to…so all you girls out there tell me if your bf has made you cm for fingering/licking you…and if so give me some fcking points bc this sh*t is depressing!!!

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Answer #1

If she’s never made herself orgasm and doesn’t know how to make herself orgasm there is no way she can expect you to be able to.

Tell her that she needs to practice and find what “works” for her and then teach you. If a woman doesn’t know how to relax and let herself orgasm then it’s just not going to work with a guy.

give her this website, it has some tips and techniques: http://www.the-clitoris.com

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