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Who would consider me a whore after dating my ex's best friend?

I was dating this guy Zach for four months, and I cared about him. But he would always say how much he was ‘in love’ with me. I’m a girl who strongly believes you can’t be in love in highschool, so I broke it off with him. And he was upset and started spreading such mean things about me and just being a jerk. But now.. I’m sorta dating his best friend. Now before jumping to conclusion, let me tell the whole story. So. I was hanging out with Alex and his friend Jack. (Jacks the boy) and I didn’t know he was Zach’s best friend. But I developed feelings for Jack, and he told me he liked me. I found out two days after that he was his best friend. Jack told me that Zach will get over me soon enough, and then we won’t have to hide it. But Zach is only mad at me, not Jack. And I kinda find that as bull, because it’s two people in a relationship. And I can’t help who I start to like. He told me once that “He can move on, but I can’t.” I was like “no, I’ll do what I want, you’ve controlled me for four months.” because he’s just always mean to me and I’m tired of it. But I just want to know.. Does it make me a who re to date his best friend? Or is it understandable?

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Answer #1

That doesn’t make you a “w” word (sorry, they won’t let me say the whole word). If anyone thinks so, they’re pretty shallow or immature…but then again, you said you’re in high school, so good luck with that.

I understand where you’re coming from though, although I have at least 6 years one you. I’ve been kinda seeing and messing around with this guy who I’ve been really good friends with for about 4-5 years now and have had liked before…and just happens to be the ex of one of my really good…or former really good friends (she kinda cut me out of her life months before breaking up with the guy.) Anyways, yeah, I think part of why we’re not an official couple yet is because of her. The two of them have stayed friends, and although she and I are on rocky ground, I don’t want to piss her off either…although she broke up with him so it really shouldn’t matter to her.
So here’s my advice. Give it some time. One, you just got out of relationship, don’t go jumping into another one with a guy you just met. Also, give Zach some time to get other things and to move on himself.

Good Luck!

Answer #2

No. You have no obligation towards your ex. Not the smartest move, but whatever.

Answer #3

a wore is soemone who has sex with tons of people just because they can have sex with them are you easy? do you sleep around and dont care about getting pregnant or stds? no, im pretty sure your smarter than that so your not a whre your just DATING his best friend, as ty said, its probably not the best movebut you cant help who you like, its done now and no it doesnt make you a wh*re

Answer #4

youre not a w-ore at all

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