How can I cope with hard times in this house?

I agree with the others.

Do you “need” to leave, of do you just want to leave?

Is your grandmother abusive? If she’s not, then I would suggest talking to her. You can’t run from all of your problems in life. Even when times are tough, you’ll often find that facing the problem gets a better result and makes you grow more as a person.

Well the thing is if you are in any danger at your grandma’s house? ask yourself that..the second one is Do you know where your going to live? The third is Have i given it enough time to understand why im living here?

everyone has been through rough times i left home when i was 17 i am now 25 and am very stable but before you decide to leave like the others said evaluate your home situation if you are not being mistreated why do you want to leave it is not easy when you have no job or money the streets are not safe for young girls at your grandmothers you are safe and have food when the time is right for you to be on your own you will have finacial security and a place to go just hang in there you are a tough person and everything will work it self out when the time is right dont be in a rush to be on your own do you really want to worry how you are going to pay bills and feed yourself enjoy being a teenager because it does not last forever

First of all “WHERE” would you go? If you are having problems w/your grandma, why don’t you sit down and talk to her about it. Grandma’s are pretty level-headed people and I am sure she would love for you to talk your problems over w/her. Just give her a chance, I was 15 once and wanted to run away from my grandma. I thought she was old & old fashioned , and didn’t love me and just kept me there because she didn’t have a choice. But Oh, was I ever wrong. She listened to me and we got to each voice our oipinions about each other and I figured out she was Really a “nice person”. Good luck hon!

NO SHES NOT ABUSIVE