can someone give me relationship advice?

From the description you’ve given, what came to my mind was that she probably just used you. I’m not sure, but it seems like she’s just leading you on for nothing. I really think you should stop texting her and stuff. The other thing I noted was the fact that you said “….Self admitting cynical boyfriend of hers hurt her…..” I don’t know but maybe he somehow found out about you and her and threatened her? Again, I’m only a 15 year old and I’m just writing what I think. None of this could be true (and i sure hope it isn’t.) But the main thing is that I think you should get over her. You said she “suddenly” started getting busy with work and that she told you she loved her boyfriend. For whatever reasons she did this, you should just let it go. It was wrong of her to get involved with you when she was already in a relationship in the first place, but you shouldn’t do anything to break their relationship either. Sooner or later, she probably will realize it. What I think you should do, is to ask her ONE last time who she’d choose. Him or you? If she chooses him, you need to respect that and get over her or just be a good friend for her, but if she chooses you, well, that’s what you wanted. If she DOES choose you, if I were in that kind of situation, I’d ask her to break up with her other boyfriend. It’s wrong to get involved with anyone when you’re already in a relationship and even worse to tell the second person that she doesn’t want to lose her friendship with the previous guy, that’s why she hasn’t broken up with him yet. Being a girl, I’ll tell you this, the “don’t-want-to-lose-the-friendship” thing is absolute cr.ap. She already lost her friendship with him when she got involved with you. Its just a matter of time before the truth comes out and she looses both of you.

I hope this helped.

And I agree with Iffy. She got involved with you when she was already in a relationship with this guy, so she probably will end up doing the same thing when you’re in a relationship with her. Life Iffy said, let her go. She’s not worth it.