What advice could people give me for a prego 14 year old girlfriend?

well I think the first step would be taking the test. just to make sure before you jump ahead.

you guys are both still pretty young. but right now the age is the last thing to worry about. you guys have to make sure you can support this child in ever which way possible. because having a child is a really huge responibilty. and if you cant take care of that child you shouldnt have it,

and so there wont be a next time I suggest you guys go get sum birth control.

Ok, well yes I know a baby is a lot of work and all and yea we will probably get some tests very soon right now we are jumping around making sure…the test would have been a good idea but we can’t really affored one let alone three I think im going to have to ask my dad for money he is probably going to get me in trubble but better to know then find out later on and do doctors do tests? we could always go to a clinic…thanks :)

well have you even taken a test? if not then your really jumping to conclusions. my friend was with her boyfriend for two years and they never had protected sex and then at the end of those two years she got pregnant, she was 14 and he was 15 and she had the baby in january this year. if you guys havnt taken a pregnancy test then take at least 3 if it comes out positive.

then when it comes to having the baby would your parents not be okey with it? if not then yes move to a ralatives house, grandparents have a lot of spare time on their hands and would probably love to look after a baby as it gives them something to do, my gran is a great grandmother to be and shes real excited and will probably end up looking after the baby a lot (my cousin is very hard working and has a fantastic job so she wont want to leave that for long) my friends that had the baby that I was talking about broke up before the baby was born and they had the best relationship I have seen in couple of teenage people. but it came between them and she told him that she couldnt deal with him. also I dont think you realise how much work a baby is, say if you and her broke up and didnt speak much anymore or she didnt let you see the baby then you still have to pay for the kid. its not always fun and cute.

although if you really want to go ahead with it then good luck to you guys. and I’d be happy to give any advice because many of my friends and family have recently had babies or are pregnant. hope this helps even though its a lot to read! x

take a test… at least 3 then the majority it says is your answer… if you freaking out then calm down and just relax. a kid is a hell of a lot of work to take care of so you have to find someone to help while you find a job or find a way to get money to support YOU… YOUR GIRL… AND YOUR KID while your doing that also think of a way to tell your parents