Question on becoming a godfather

In some cultures, the word for “godparent of one’s child” is used for any, or certain, very close friends.

Yes, I hope you don’t have to lie, but to be honest, if the parents are happy to choose you knowing your beliefs, I think their wishes are the most important thing. Godparents are to support the child. Christian parents will include spiritual support/prayer in that, but other parents will look more at the practical support and encouragement you can give the child. If they know what you believe and they want you to be a godfather, I think that’s all that matters.

If your friend is catholic, then technically you can’t be a godparent of a catholic. If you have not received catholic baptism, communion and confirmation, you are not eligible.

I am an athiest, and I am a godfather twice. Since the only part I was concerned about was the honor of doing it, and the religious aspect of was meaningless to me, I had to fib on a form saying I am a practicing catholic, although I did have all the sacraments. The kids were my wife’s great niece and nephew, and she would have killed me if I didn’t do it! The parents knew my beliefs, and they had no problem, since my wife still practices.

nah dun wurry bout it dude, mah friend corleone was 1. so I know what m sayin. long live da mafia.

Id ask the parents what they think. They may not be offened that you are an ahthiest. I think it would depend on them.