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girlfriend didn’t understand me being upset about a very small thing. She accused me of not putting her and family first. Which I always have. I told her she was falsely accusing me and judging me wrongly. I was harsh and to the point. I was pissed. She took it wrong and now no longer talks to me. It’s been almost two weeks. I sent flowers once and one very short email. Apologizing and telling her that when she’s ready to talk I will be here. Signature with “I miss you.” To date I haven’t gotten any response at all. At this point I am not sure how to respond. What should I do? Does she want me to persue her? Is this a test? Or should I let it go and since I put the offer out there wait till she makes contact? (If she does.) How long should I wait? Just so you know. She broke up with me very early on and two weeks later she came back. She said it was because we had sex too soon. She wanted to stop and just start over. My thought is if you really like a person and want it to work. Then you’ll take the time and effort to work through obstacles as they come. I’m trying to be opened minded but I feel that she may not be as into me as I am in her. Even though she made me feel like she was crazy about me. Puzzled dude trying to figure this one out.. any help?

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Answer #1

Hadn’t thought about going to her house. Didn’t want to come across as a stalker and creep her out. But if I worked it right that might be doable. I know she is busy right now with several sporting events. My response to her was in an email (first mistake) and it wasn’t extreamly blunt and hurtful. But hurtful non-the-less. YOU hit the nail on the head! She did exactly that. She made me feel like she didn’t care and didn’t tell me the full story. She’s really partly to blame. But I will take responsibility for my own actions. Valentines coming up is also giving me some insecurities about how to address that special day with our recent break up. Just to add a little gas to the fire. I met a girl and we went out sat night. we really like each other. But I have some strong feelings for the one that is mad at me. My friends tell me to “man UP’ and go for the other girl. And forget the other one because there are less obstacles in her life that will effect a relationship or even casual dating of her as compared to the first girl. So,…then there’s that! lol Maybe your right. One last offer of an apology and there’s not much more I can do or should do after that.

Answer #2

If she isnt replying she isnt intrested or maybe she is just busy. It depends on how far you went with your anger like what you said & did. If you were very blunt & hurtful you might as well forget about her. You being mean to her might have made it seem like you didnt care for her. Maybe try going over to her house I mean what is an email & flowers going to do? Go to her house say your sorry if she forgives you (which I hope she does) then yay but if she doesnt there is nothing you can do to change her mind.

-Hope I helped :)

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