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Time To Go To The Next Step?

Hi, so ok, I need a hand. I am 16 and my girl friend is 15,before I had other girl friends,we have made out and stuff but did nothign else. I was her first kiss, and I was the first person she ever made out with. We have been going out 2 weeks now and I cant hep but wondering when its appropriate to move on. I would love to finger her, and of course get a hand job or a blow job.Id even not care about getting a bj if I could finger her. I’ve been reading on the web a bit latley, and im pretty sure I know how to pleasure her. 1 things, I know we have only been together for a few weeks, and I can wait even a month, but how do I ask her or make a move to finger her or ask for a bj? I cant just plunge my hand into her pants, she might freak, so how can I do it? and if it turns out im not great at it and I cant make her orgasm, how do I know if she likes it and how long should I do it for? Thanks very much. Oh and also, she has very small boobs, like A cups, how do I make her feel better about them? or how can I see them? Thanks ~ Bill

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Answer #1

Well, in 2 weeks you can’t really know how a person is thinking, sooo you’re just going to have to ask her. DONT ask can you finger her, but ask her how comfortable is she about moving forward, let her suggest things first….if its close to fingering, then bring up your idea of fingering her. if her ideas of moving forward are far from fingering and bjs, then just wait for your ideas and just do her to make her feel more comfortable with you.

Technique: Im no expert but i have had BAD fingering jobs, so here’s what not to do. Don’t touch her without washing your hands first-germs are everywhere, she might not even think about it but as a caring boyfriend-do. Don’t rub the clit too too too hard…Sometimes rubbing the clit soft is good and sometimes hard is good…look at her facial expressions to determine what she needs. and depending on the wetness…will determine how long to finger. Because Friction sucks. Ask her to help you find her G-spot. Thumb on the clit and two fingers on the G-spot will have her squirming :) Its nice to read on techniques…but remember, her body language will tell you what she likes.

Answer #2

you should maybe wait abit until a full month then talk about fingering with her and once you start some more intamite kissing you could start fingering her little by little

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