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What do I say to get her to move up to the next level

Me and my girlfriend are 14 and I am ready to well you know move to the next level (like fingering and handjobs you know) but I dont know how to ask her or tel her because im afraid she might think that I am sum kinda like sexual need person and im not or wood that make me one? Well any way how do I say it with out reely saying it or is that not the right thing to do??? Help!!!

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Answer #1

If you want to skip all that unwanted crap of talking to one another while being in the mood to go further while you’re making out, then simply work your way around (with your hand, duh lol) her thighs and SLOWLY work it towards her vagina. If she looks like she’s getting hornier and hornier then continue, with the end goal of fingering her. BUT if she tells you to stop or moves your hand away or that she’s not ready yet, then you damn well better stop and try again at a later date (patience is key with sht like this). Then you can bring up a handjob at a later date, unless her impulse is to go for your dck if she is being pleasured by your fingers and enjoying the hell out of it. I usually find the latter to be the case… good luck kid.

Answer #2

dont rush her into and e thing. next time you guys make out or something let your hands wander and if she likes it keep going but if she says stop then stop!

Answer #3

Essentially summarizing what I said lol

Answer #4

you should just say what you are thinking about and talk to each other. cause then she will know what is on your mind. but DO NOT pressure her into doing something that she wants to do.

Answer #5

Tell her that you’re ready to move up to the next level(say “I’m ready” not “I want”) and ask her to tell you whenever she is also ready. Remember that just because you are ready that does not mean that she is ready.

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