Should I stay with the father of my unborn baby?

I’m pregnant and engaged. To be brief, I don’t know if i should stay with my fiance or not. All he cares about is money. He dosen’t understand that I (and our baby) need him and not just a paycheck. I’m tired of fighting and I just want to do the right thing. Please help!

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Hey look, you are off to a good start here - its natural for a guy to be primarily concerned with money- even obsessed at this stage- (PREGNANT, GIRLFRIEND, BABIES) Please don’t knock him for it! Instead tell him how wonderfully supported you feel financially, and how much you love him for being such a great provider! If that doesnt make him want to chase you up the stairs- I’ll eat my hat! …This is how guys work! By telling him that he is fullfilling his role so well, he may stop feeling that he has to work , work work… There are lots of books that you will be excited to read- ones that show you how to get what you need in your relationship- without fighing, nagging or driving him away. Without more details, its difficult to advise much more, but t From what you are telling me, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus - author John Grey will be a great starting place for you! you’ll find copies on ebay or on amazon. There are lots of books that you will be excited to read- ones that show you how to get what you need in your relationship- without fighing, nagging or driving him away. Without more details, its difficult to advise much more, but do ask more questions, perhaps giving more of an isight into how your relationship is for you, and what exactly you want from it..

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