Am I ready for a kid?

I think you should think about all these things that lips said.. I mean you have a life and you should put it to your best of your abilities.. :)

Ok, well anyways.. I’m going to act like your thinking sensibly.. which your not, and Im going to recommend you to slow down, there is no reason in the world why you a child, should be having another child, just because you had a rough life, does not mean your child desrerves one.. you should slow down, wait till your married, and ALSO. make sure you can financially, and physcically support the child, anyways, I hope you know also that your boyfriend apparently is a lot older than you, and just because he wants one, does not mean you should go and have his child… First comes your studies, focus on school, and see where an education leads you, anyways, good luck. :]

Your rough past doesn’t mean that you’re qualified to have a baby.

Before you can even think about providing the necesseties of life for a baby, you have to be able to provide them for yourself. Basic food and shelter.

What’s your disposable income right now? You’re 14 and your boyfriend is 19 so I guess he is working full time. Is there money left over at the end of the month for something like a mortgage payment? That’s about what it’s going to feel like.

If you do get pregnant, in the state of NY your parents can have him charged with statutory rape, because the age of consent is 17.

dont have a kid at your age, you will only throw your life away and think about the child. are you going to have money? are you going to have to quit school? I think you two should wait atleast until youre done with high school. but even thats pretty young. do you plan on going to college? really think about this before you decide to get pregnant.

Just by reading the first sentence my answer is a big fat NO. You are way, way too young. By the way why would you choose the name “ teen_mommy_14” if you aren’t?