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prevention of a kid

so im eighteen and I have benn recently having sex. I have not used a condom but I have not gotten pregnant. I didnt mean not to use one. my previous boyfriend I had before I had sex with a lot and I was stupid and didn’t use a condom but I never got pregnant and I didnt want to at the time. I am not on birth control and have not taken any pills. but lately I have been wanting a kid. I know im only eighteen but I graduate this year. I have not told my boyfriend I want a kid yet because he tells me he is not ready to be a father. is their anything you can think of that might prevent me from having a kid?

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Answer #1

Yes - he already told you he’s not ready, so he may not stay - no marriage, no financial stability…think harder.

Answer #2

yes. birth control. or you could try praying… but I wouldnt bet on it… I’d try the birth control instead…

Answer #3

Some couples are extremely fertile and conceive every 10 months (when unprotected). Others, are not as well adapted and conceive about once a year. Some couples are not genetically compatible and never conceive.

A bit of advice though, are you 100% sure you are ready to give up your freedom FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE? Because that’s what having a child is all about.

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