Why do all these younger kids feel they need to do this!?

I really don’t understand why younger kids feel the need to participate in sexual things. I see questions literally like everwhere saying that their 12 or 13 and they know they’re ready for sex. They have a boyfriend and they love eachother and are ready to take that next step together. I mean hey,if you found ‘love’ good for you but theres a huge diference between love and lust. I get so aggrivated reading stories on different websites about 13 year olds wanting kids and raising a family! Then you have other girls saying they were having unprotected sex behind there parents back and are not sure how to tell them that they’re pregnant. Honestly, what is so wrong with abstinence? These kids need to take time to talk to their parents about all the different things they’re feeling and the parents need to take time to explain it to their kids. I’m not looking for advice on this, im stating this so that any other younger teenagers that think they are ready for sex, and are so in love, and know what it takes to be a parent, can read this and hopefully discuss with their parents all the hormones their body is dealing with. And of course to anyone else who agrees with me on this subject.

Answer #1

Well first off, I personally believe different people mature at different ages. However with that said, I have to agree that it seems people are becoming sexually active at earlier and earlier ages.

and I agree that sex can be beautiful and a true expression of your feelings for someone, at the same time it can totally destroy your life at a young age. For example with my first girlfriend (who is now probably one of my closest friends) we were together for a long time (a few years), but we never had sex because I never saw the need to, both because we were young and because we always thought there would be a time and a place. When we broke up I took it really hard, I got depressed and didn’t feel the same, I can only imagine what it would have been like if we ended up having sex.

But really as long as they are being safe and know the risks then I don’t think its so bad, but I don’t think I could imagine my little sister having sex at her age.

Answer #2

I know it makes me laugh sometime I see people who are like 14/15 and pregnant what is it a fashion eccessoryall these youngsters going around pushing buggys it looks so horrible what a waste of a life they go to school get good grades and thn just throw them all away by getting pregnant! ITS SO ANNOYING sorry just thought I would have a moan lol Jo x

Answer #3

I agree what the hell is wring with these kids I mean my little cousin is like 12 what the hell will she be doing at 13 14 even 15 if something happens to her I will kill the dude I mean I she’s like a sister to me

Answer #4

I agree 100% as well. I’m a virgin and I turned down 8 people who wanted sex from me. I get that I’m hot, but I don’t want to go THAT far!!! Hell, I don’t even want to go as far as oral! I’m male 15 by the way.

Answer #5

well I was 13 when I first had sex.we have been together about 2 years before that.and we are still together till this day.im sure if it was lust we would have broken up by now..we dont need sex 4 a happy relationship.nobody does think about it everyone .how would your relationship b without sex?

Answer #6

im 14 and I’ve had sex already I think itz fine if you wear a condom but I dont agree with unprotected sex…

Answer #7

I agree with you 100%. It is pretty sad too see children experimenting with sex at such an early age. Society is going right down the drain.

Answer #8

I know but I mean my lil cuzin is 13 & she wants 2 ave sex I told her no im 16 I havnt not dont that yet I told her that she better not because sex comes wit nots of stuff I mean I told her about all the bad stuff that comes wit it… like AIDS HIV HERPYES I told her she can have a baby & girls wont like her boy wont lover I mean the bad stuff && its true .. right but I mean she telling me this im like oh hell no but I fouond out now I told her that … that she dont want 2 till she is lots older but when she gets 2 b around my age ill tell her som good things if I can think of any :) [[[ well im 16 && I mean besides this I mean I didnt wait til I was 16 and a half]]

Answer #9

Well I don’t know. I’m responsible. I’m 14 and I have sex. I have been with this guy for 4 years solid and we are in love. I am on birth control and he uses protection too. Me and my parents have open talks about my sex life. I have a good sex life, like 3 times or so a week but me and my boyfriend are really cautious. And it makes it better that my parents know what we do. So not all teens are sneaking around. And sex isnt always a bad thing, it can be beautiful with the right person.

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