How do I have a positive attitude around my family?

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Okay…this is a good question.. you are trying to be more polite =) always obey what ever they tell you and ask you to do. be very patient with them even if they yell at you or say something bad to you (remember they are angry at that moment and they are your FAMILY)spend more times with them hang out with them…they love it when they see you around them.dont ever lie to them and dont hide anything from them if you had a problem tell them about it and listen to them when they talk to you always be calm at home and dont get angry at them.learn to apologize …and accept everything about them as your beloved Family and remember one day all your friends MAY leave you alone but your family will always be there for you …

Reframe your thoughts. Family members are going to push your buttons like no one else. Most of the time, they dont do it on purpose to annoy you or bug you. So try to remember that they are not out to get you. Also more specific examples would help.