Parents and Trust. (Parents or Kids please)

I understand where you are coming from but they have a right to rule your life its their resposobility and you shud respect that but they shud also giv you some freedom

You’re wrong - sure your parents want you to live your life - they have vested interest in your success - show them in other ways you can be responsible - understandable they don’t want you to stray down that same hard road - they CARE !!…many, many don’t - be Thankful.

Thanks for all of the advice, I understand that my parents want to protect me and your right there are some time when im glad I didnt go. but I have always been the responsibl one -and I know im young- but I want to be a little free .. thanks anyway and I love the fact my parents are there for me, but im growing up so there are going to be situations when I want to be free. ツ thanks to everyone x

You are underage - of course your parents wouldn’t let you go to a party with drinkng. HELLO!!!

You are a child - they are the adults. It is their responsiblity to protect you, be respsonsible for you, and monitor you. They are doing their best job to raise your properly and keep you out of trouble, because they love you! Be happy you have parents that care about you - some kids dont have that and wish they did.

There’s something you have to keep in mind here - until you move out on your own, they DO rule your life.

You’re still young and your parents need to be able to make informed decisions about the places you want to go or the things you want to do. They are looking out for your best interests, so I’m afraid you’re just going to have to deal with it.

If I were you, I’d be happy to have had parents that were so involved in my life as a teen - it would have saved a lot of heartache as I grew.

Umm, well, when you want to go somewhere that you know they aren’t going to let you go, make up a story. And do what you want. Thats what I do. :]

You may think that they are being mean or selfish by not letting you “live your life”, however, later, like 5 or more years from now, you will be very greatful to have had parents who told you No. I think that telling your children No in situations like this determines the type of person you will be later in life. Live and learn applies to some situations, like love, success, and things like that. But alcohol and drugs is not always a learning experience, sometimes it’s just live and die. Think about it. I know it’s tough, but relax. You don’t have much longer under their roof anyway, and if you still wanna live and learn, then at 18 you can. I feel you and your parents. I always thought mine were being mean when they didn’t let me do what I wanted, but I am so glad they made the choices they did. A lot of times, situations like this had bad endings and I found out about it later when I didn’t go.