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Well im 15 and the other day my ex boyfriend who my parents arent very fond of anyways came over to see me after my parents left for work the other night and so I guess you would say I snuck out and I went and talked to him and where he is 18 and im 15 its illegal… but the cops drove by curious to wonder what we were doing out so I had to call mom and tell her everything and now she has NO trust for me and I am no longer to be around this boy or even talk to him.. how do I get the trust back?

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Answer #1

hiii,,,my names tiffany..and I live in ohio,,and im 15.okay,,sooo,,,about a few months ago in december I got in contact with my mom I started smoking got depressed,,dated my boyfriend who they hated and snuck him over every day I had sex with him all the time..and I really really screwed up…I got caught with everything.!!! I cried they took away everything from me I went from being sooo popular to being hated at my school…they told me I could never date him again and id never be able to do anything for a very long time…but c my parents are sooo strict so I believed it .. I had two choices…cry and wine about it everyday..or learn from what I did…me being sad made others sad sooo,,I basicly helped out around the house brought my grades up…showed them I am a good person..I smiled and I was me agian…u need to allow them to come into your life..im not sayign tell them everything im just saying let them no whats kind of going on explain how you were feeling and remind them you’ll always love them…I hope this may have helped…god bless…

Answer #2

It is going to take a lot of time and effort for her to trust you again. First sit down and have a conversation with her and tell her you know you messed up. Focus on school to get good grades before she gets home from work clean up your house or cook dinner. Just try your hardest and she’ll see that you’re trying. but like I said it’s going to take time.

Answer #3

It’s a lot of work. You’ve got to first talk to her about it, apologize; and just do more than they expect you should. Do better in school, more of your chores, doing things without being told, etc. And make sure you don’t do anything like this again!

Answer #4

You start obeying your parents!

Answer #5

You start obeying your parents!

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