Why would a parent never tell their child(ren) they love them?

Answer #1

They’re afraid to show/receive love.

Answer #2

idk but i feel like that is something that a kid needs to hear that they are loved.. even though a kid might laugh or shrug when a parent tells them that they love them. it actually does make them feel loved

Answer #3

One factor would have to be what type of relationship a parent is to their children. If they are not close saying i love you would probably never happen. Unless their children is away from home or something.

Answer #4

probably ur Grandparents nvr told ‘em that! theyre not used to..I’m sure they express other ways ;)

Answer #5

Some think the tougher they are, the stronger their children will be. And in some cultures, it’s just not how parents show their emotion. A lot of us who were children in the 60s also did not get that type of affection from our parents.

Answer #6

Cultural influences. In Indonesia, most parents will not tell their children that they love them. That is because their anchestors do the same: never tell their children. It is not because they do not want to nor they do not love their kids. So it is matter of habit.

Answer #7

My mother never told me she loved me, but it was just the way my family was - parents were authority figures and children were seen and not heard. I never felt unloved, though, as my mother’s actions were enough proof for me. Words are just words.

Answer #8

My father has never once said he loves me nor have I said it to him since i was a toddler. I have always been daddys little girl and I grew up knowing my parents and siblings loved me but it was never said except by my momma. We always said i love you or love you to my momma. And you always had to kiss her goodbye. But with my father he only hugs the grandkids and never says i love you but it never stops the kids from saying it to him. We know he loves us all he just is not an emotional person.

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