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Should I do anything about these old love letters I found?

I found some old love letters at my boyfriends house that he is keeping in a shoe box under a bunch of pictures. Should i confront him about them (if i do i will be caught for snooping), throw them away and see if he notices or just not doing nothing at all? We are moving in together in about three weeks and i want to make sure he still doesn’t have feelings for his girlfriend. They broke up about two years ago…. please help….

xoxo rae14

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Answer #1

You gotta let them be. I know it hurts to think that there is a part of his life that you were never part of, but remember that that was before he met you, fell for you and eventually decided to move in with you (which means he really likes spending time with you and wants more!).

I have some old love letters from my ex’s. I don’t keep them because I’m still in love with those guys (and, like snowboarder, I never look at them and actually hate one of my ex’s). I keep them to remind me of my past, who I once was, where I came from, my god and the mistakes I made!!!

Put them back in the box, remind yourself that those relationships didn’t work out and yours is and go give your boyfriend a huge kiss. Reacting jealously will make you feel like those girls are still between you, which they are not for him, so why invite them over?

Answer #2

definitely leave them alone. I save tons of old stuff for sentimental reasons, nothing more. They are probably just souvenirs of his past. Don’t tell him you are a snoop because if you are that way it will probably bring more harm to the relationship if he can’t trust you.

Answer #3

I have old letters somewhere at my house too… from a ex gf i hate now… doesn’t mean anything is happening… just never thought of throwing them away…. i don’t go reading them or anything…i would just forget about it… you are jumping the gun on this one.

Answer #4

dont throw them away u may hurt his feelings, dont do anything, there his property, it wasnt nice 2 snoop around his room anyway, leave them an dont say anything 2 him

Answer #5

Those are his, and it is his past, which had nothing to do with you. Leave them be!

Answer #6

i would propably do nothing 4 now and just c how things go

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