My mother doesn't speak with my anymore

Me and my mom were very close we never fought .I always had her back even in times were I didnt agree . but one day my mom did somthing I could never emagin .she always protected us from guys that would try things on me and my sisters.but one day my my little sister told me that a boyfriend that lives in the same house made sexul advansment at her ,and its been going on for 2 years .know he is 23 years old and my little sister is 15 .so I helped her tell my mom and my mom was angry but only for the wrong reasons all she could say is why didnt you tell me sooner.so my mom told him to leave and he did .but you see this boyfrend of my other sister has a new baby with my other sister who also lives in that house .and I didnt no that he was having his visatation at the same house until my babysister would call and cry saying how could mom let this man in (she said that my mom would tell her to stay in the basment so he could visit his baby .and it hurt my baby sister its like my mom and my other siser was not taking her serously. and broke her heart . (it must be hard for a young girl who took so long to tell someone about what happend to have to hear him upstairs laughing with everyone like nothing ever happend .she was unconfortable. so after the phone call I steped in.I had to. becouse my babysister ran away to my house .so I called my mom she is yelling and says to me what am I supposed to do when he has a baby with your sister .and I said tell my sister to leave the house and meet somwere else for visatatin .its not right that my baby sister has to hear this man and have to hide in her on house when its sopposed to be a safe house . after arguing on the phone she calls me back and says im right .and the stress just came of me and I said thanks mom for understanding .so I sent my baby sister back home promising her she will be safe. but thats not what happend .my babysister left again saying he was back.so I thought maybe if I write to my mom about this so that she dosnt yell and at least will read this my babysister was scared she said is mom going to throw me out .and I said no of corse not she loves you allot her head is just in the wrong place right now. well when my mom got the note she said that I have brainwashed my babysister and that she dosent what to see me ever again. and for my babysister she threw her out. I feel hurt and I feel like I let my babysister down. I was only trying to protect her. I am devastated by all of this we were such a tight family .I dont even sleep well anymore .my heart has been torn .never would my mother do somthing like this .I dont even no her like I thought .I’ve tried writing to my mom a few times she dosnt answer any of my letters … my babysister is okay she is with me .I cant belive my eyes to what has happend at all. any advise …

Answer #1

wel I think your in the right!!! totaly!! I think you should give it a lil more time and maybe she will see shes in the wrong for not talking to you, maybe she feels guilty? at the fact she was with a man that made sexual advertisments to your baby sister? and because you knew about it she feels hurt that no one told her? and if the mans back I think you should let your sis live with you? and look out for her just keep trying 2 contact your mum hopefuly 1 day she wil realise!!! that your more inportant that some dumb man!! good luck xxx

Answer #2

get over it

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