I cant take it anymore!

if shes annoying you just ignore her and say as little as you can without getting in trouble but do what she says just dont talk and if you have to make it short answers!! works 4 me and it will get the point across quickly. scilence is LOUD

She sound either bipolar or manic depressive. If it’s just come on all of a sudden, she might be going through something really bad and keeping it bottle up and to herself. Just hang on… as with all thing, this too will end.

I guess your right. But she agures with my dad too! Mostly with me though. It seems like she loves to agure. I Know she may be going through some things but still, mothers don’t tell you that your going to end up just like your cuzion whos bad, and smokes, and has sex and is a drop out. That just brings me down. Like I don’t get it! My sister claims she’s the smartest, and me? Well I don’t really care who the smart one is, at least I try at school. I try hard! I won honor roll, and arts, which I never thought I’d win, I won a trophy for my singing and everything. I got a chance to meet the board. And they say they are proud of me, yet they tell me I’m going to end up like my cuzion. Like can’t you see I’m trying REALLY hard, to proove you wrong…? Like I bet if I was a striaght A student, you will still be on my back, while my sisters didn’t win anything and my report card was better than hers. I tried so hard.. And she still picks on me. I guess she’s trying to train me, you know for bullies, so I can get mad and defend myself or take care of myself which helped I must admit. But my sisters so shy because of my mother, she never had time for her, it was always, ME, ME , ME! And I hate that! My sister’s left alone and I’m always like her body guard or her baby sitter, because sometimes she doesn’t know what to do since my mother never taught her ( to much time on me ). And sometimes my sister tells me to go away and acts like a b*tch to me. And if I do leave her alone, something really BAD happens. Always:S.. It’s because she doesn’t know how to take care of her self well enough to be alone… Also, that night when she told me I was going to be like my cuzion, I decided to get a job so I can take the family out for dinner, for her 47th birthday, and to get her to a spa for herself, and yet she tells me that?! Thank you for reading everyone I really do appreciate it:):D

Many will tell you that this is normal, though not universal; they will tell you that you will love your mother when you’re 25 and probably before. They will ask if you’re quite sure you’re not being a bit awkward just because you want to be independent. And you will think “I’ve heard all that stuff before, what help is that, all you old people (over 25) talk the same.” We’ve been through it and came out the other side knowing more about ourselves, our mothers and everyone else. When you get the same answer from everyone, it’s probably true for most people. Just grit your teeth, count ten and remember it takes to to make a misunderstanding.

I thought you might like to hear from me as the Mom of twins myself. My twins are boys and now they are 21. Throughout the teen years, they seemed to me to be oversensitive to being not treated fairly and in lots of cases rightly so. In school, they had twice the attention on them and not always positive attention. And at home, you might be getting the double whammy thing too. Or, your mother may be on your case more because she expects more from you. Try not to take these moments of frustration into everything you do. Like Lillikat said this will pass! Absolutely it will. I never thought we would get past the fighting and crying in our family and we absolutely did! Your mom may be going through something that you cannot understand and its okay to challenge her on it, just try not to at the heated moments! Good luck and let me know if you would like to pen pal for your support!

dont be so tence my dear, you arwe not the only 1, do all those work which you like , dont worry for others , its your life . enjoy in any ways , as we all know, those things are more valuable , which we do not have, so dont take tension , and one day will come when you will be one of the most happist person in this world , ,so enjoy your life and , dont think deep which tence you

ok seriously hun … go see a counselor or something. because that is not right for your mom to treat you like that. and counselors really do help, and they want to help. or tell someone at school, that could help, like a teacher. tell them exactly what you just told us