My mom is cheating on my stepdad

I feel so down and out a few years ago my step dad cheated on my mom and felt upset and mad I wanted her to leave him but they worked threw it latly my mom has been going out and drinkin and getting out of control and shes been cheating. I think if she dosent want it done to her she shouldnt do it ether and I don’t know if I should tell my dad I don’t wanna get into trouble for anything but everytime I see her txtn or tlkn on her cell phone it pisses me off and I get upset

tell your mom frankly about it. a lot of lives are ruined because of adultery, and pray to God, that your mom will realize what she’s doing is wrong. you’re a great brother and God will reward you for it.

You poor thing, thats a really horrible situation for you to have to deal with. Your mother is being so selfish by burdening you with this, I’m sorry to say. You need to speak to someone, you can’t keep this bottled up it’s not fair on you to have to deal with it. Do you have anyone else that you can talk to? Another adult? Have you tried telling your mum how upset you are? I don’t know whether you should tell your stepdad or not, it’s a tricky situation to be in. Sorry I can’t give you better advice :(

well.. in all honesty.. it sounds like your mom is wanting you to tell him so she doesn’t have to.. I’m only saying that because you said “she just tells me its none of my business but she putting me through hell because I know and I haven’t told my stepdad”.. I think I’d ask her point blank.. “do you want me to tell him? is that why you’re acting like this towards me?”

I found out my step mom was cheating on my dad and I confronted her. I said “you can’t let this go on and think it’s okay. You either need to put an end to it, or you and (my dad) go separate ways. It’s going to hurt your step dad more the longer it goes on. If you can, tell your mom that it IS partly your business because it’s affecting your life. You can also tell her that she needs to pick one or the other… hope you feel better =)