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My mom wants to leave my stepdad for another guy? PLEASE HELPPP!!!

so my mom, she hates my stepdad, so she doesnt really live withh us, she usually goes away for a little while and works in a different state. I love my stepdad. I’ve been with him for 5 years and he is like a true dad to me. we spend every moment together and he makes me happy. But my mom wants to leave him because she dosnt love him and I dont want to really go with her. DONT GET ME WRONG, SHE IS A WONDERFUL MOM, SHE IS LOVING AND CARING AND SHE DOES A LOT FOR ME. but she wants to leave him with me. I really dont want to go. I spend every day with him and I love him as a dad. EVERYONE AGREES WITH MY MOM BECUASE SHES AN ADULT AND IM 13.. I cant really say anything. this is really hard and nobodys on my side, but I TRULY WANT TO STAY WITH MY STEPDAD. can anyone just support me and give me advice, I’ve been crying my eyes out for months when I found out and I dont want to leave him. ALSO, I DONT WANT TO MAKE A BAD DECISION BY LEAVING MY MOM… becuse she seriously does a lot and shes a good mom.

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tbh babe I think you should talk to both of them and try sort thing out between them and even if they do split you can still live with both of them like half of the week you could stay with yur mum and other with your stepdad… only a suggestion

hope it works out for you babe x

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