What can I do if my girlfriend's parents won't let her date me?

The truth shall set you free.

Be upfront and honest with her parents. Tell them you care about their daughter and you want their permission before proceeding further. Tell them you will respect their daughter, and only want companionship for the time being. They may ask to accompany you on a date or something. If you really like the girl, agree with them and perhaps you will gain their trust.

If her parents are completely unreasonable and won't allow you to see their daughter, than I think it is time you decide whether secretly continuing the relationship is worth it. Or perhaps you could wait another year, if you think it's worth it.

Most people are reasonable when someone treats them with respect and acts courteously. Continuing to lie, though, will only make them distrustful of you later when they do find out.

Best of luck!

Im 14 my girlfriends 15 I love her with all my heart been datinf for two years but all of a souden her mom and grandma think where haveing sex where not so they cast me out.she sneaks the phon sometimes and calls me but now her grandma called my dad and yelled at him so hes changing the numbers.She has my email should I wait tell she is 17 to see her?

i think its good if you talk to her parents.it would be the best thing to do.just let her mom know you love her would never break her heart.well now its up to you…if her parents like you then that’s great!

i got the same problem.. but she isnt religious.. she just wont let her date. but i reallly realllly like her. and dont want to lose her FOCK!

I have the same exact problem. Just last night i went to my gf’s house and as soon as I saw her, I knew she’d been crying. Upon asking her what was wrong she wouldn’t tell me, but I guessed it..her parents said we couldn’t date anymore. Her dad’s told me before about this “don’t awaken love before it’s time” stuff from the bible. Personally, I can’t really remember God telling anyone not to love some one but he’s one of those hardcore fanatic christians so there’s no persuading him. Thankfully her grandma is pissed about the situation and is all for helping us continue the relationship in secret. So there’s a plus. But yeah idk I talked to the guy about it. So atleast I was upfront and honest, but now that that doesn’t work..he’s left me no choice but to resort to secrecy.

Wow, Im 15 and in the same situation. I say wait it out. Its worth it I know. But when you talk it out to her parents they will see you as anti-religious and that is a major downfall. This is why I dont like Christianity, especially the Mormon faith. It makes no sense. All I can do is say “ Earn the respect from her family, wait it out, they wont like a non-religous figure in their daughters life” . Dallasman has the right idea, but they wont change their mind. Religion ( especially the one that focuses on pre-marital sex) is a hard thing to persuade. Because most religious fanatics are trying to be better than other religious people.

Email me … Elinthial@aol.com

Hey i have the same exact problem except i’m the girl that has to hid my man it’s really hard but dont give up it’s been worth it for me maybe it will be for you to ;)

Hey Honey,

I say state your presence. I don't mean make force yourself on her parents, but I would say find the church tehy go to and go, show them that you're responsible. Do things that make them think that you would be the perfect type of guy for their daughter to date (at least when she's allowed to date). They might change their minds, knowing that she's going to have to date eventually, mine as well let her date knowing she's with someone good, responsible, and trustworthy. Good Luck!

Love Always, dallasmn