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Why won't my parents let me move in with my boyfriend?

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Im 18 years old almost 19, my father owns a printing company and gave me a job as a receptionist, bought me a 2004 toyota tacoma, and is telling me that I need to start paying the insurance if I don't start going to school. Im dating a very wonderful man who just lost his father and has to move in with his two friends from high school, they now are renting a very nice house and he asked me to move in with him. I want to move out and get away from my parents and if I move in with him and his friends rent will be cheap and its only ten minutes from where I work, its also very convient for the both of us cause we'll get to see eachother more often, cause I work days and he works nights....anyway.... to get to the point, I was very excited about the thought of moving in with him but when I talked to my parents about it they got very upset and said that it was a very bad idea because we're too young and not married my dad also told me that if I do he said that I will no longer have a truck, a job and no money for school, but everyone know that we're meant to be together, we plan on getting married and my parents know this. When I saw how upset my mom got about the whole thing I just decided to rent an apartment instead, they said they would feel much better about that idea but then they started talking about me moving in with my brother... hes 28 years old and is now going through a divorce and his wife wants to buy him out of the house so he is now living with us. So my parents thought it would be a good idea for us to get a house together, but the thing is since hes divorced hes going to start dating other girls and most likely bringing them home after dates, if you catch my drift and I really don't want to be around with things like that going on, especially when im sleeping. So, basically I don't know what to do.... im being pulled three different ways and I don't know which way to go.