What if my girlfriend won't let me touch her?

Respect that she doesn’t want to be touched and move on. PLENTY of other women out there! 18 months and no sex? You are getting played boys.

maybe shes hiding something…large…and phallic…?

wow booboo..im amazed. i mean even little kids have seen them.lol but like juni said. maybe she just thinks that your not ready for her. reassure her that you have “everything under control” and that you trully love. maybe asking her why she wont let you touch her will help. i mean asking does open doors you know. the way your acting iguess she thinks that your a bit scared and shy that your not the right one. Prove her wrong. seduse her ;p

She’s touching you because she’s curious and probably feels that if she doesn’t at least do something that you won’t stay with her. I did that when I was younger as well.

She isn’t ready. So I’d tell her that until she is ready you just want to have fun and hang back on the sexual stuff for awhile.

I have the same problem my girlfriend belives its wrong to do before marrige and she has let me touch her but now she wont again she is uncomfertable with it I know but she at times likes it but after its done she regrets it so man dont push it she will come around its only ben three months I’ve ben waiting for 6 so take your time talk to her and see what she will allow

hm… Don’t touch her? you said yourself, shes not ready so why keep doing it? Leave her alone and when she is ready, she’ll surely let you know. be happy with what your getting.

if shes not ready shes not ready you need to respect that its her body and you can’t make her do anything she dosn’t want to and you have the desition to make not stangers. When she is ready im sure she will tell you.

same here mate, I’ve bin wid my girlfriend for 2 months, and she let me finger her before in her house, but when we went too the empty field, she wudnt let me when I tried, but shes acting more loving:S I think patience is in order, and all girls have boundreas, so just respect it and try agen next time ;p

Some women are reluctant to have their clitoris touched. It is very important to discuss this. Many women have learned that sexual stimulation is wrong. This is true of baby boomer women. Many of these women were raised by very conservative fathers and silent mothers. I have first hand experience of this. My first wife always pushed my hand away from her clitoris. I was young and accepted this. My second lover opened my eyes. She enjoyed the stimulation and I brought her to multiple orgasms.

I congratulate her for having her boundries. Respect her wish and be glad that she is interested enough to want to please you. Ask her what her boundries are and stick within them. She will respect you for it and in time will be more than willing to move the stakes a bit. Don’t rush it. Good Luck Gino

I’ve dated my girlfriend for 18 months. She still won’t let me touch her. It’s such a hard situation.

I’ve dated my girlfriend for 18 months. She still won’t let me touch her. It’s such a hard situation. We’re both 17. We should be able to do things like this. It’s pretty frustrating