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I'm married to my 21 yr old boyfriend who has a 4 yr old daughter, Sabina. I've known Sabina all her life. I named her, she knows me as mom. Lately shes been really snotty! "Mom! I hate you! Daddy does too. Thats why he called you the bad b word!" "Mom! I'm hungry! Youre my mommy! Youre supposed to take care of me! Feed me!" "Mom! I stuck the bath plug up my ass. Take it out... with your teeth!" Ok, the last one I made up but shes driving me nuts!!! She always complains I like my son, Isaiah, better then her. That shes not loved, that I hate her and blah blah blah. Truth is When my boyfriend told me his ex girlfriend was pregnant I was pissed! But now I'd do anything in a heartbeat whether it means I cut my nails off or I cut my leg off. I tell her I love her everyday and I get her presents when I come home from school. I'm 18! I plan on going to school to be a child psychologist some time soon. I dont have time to walk around the whole world to prove to her that I love her more then anything in the world!!! So, any fast, not much energy consuming ideas to make her trust me when I say no one could ever take her place?