How did you tell your mum your lost your virginity?

i want to tell my mum so i can get on the pill and build a closer relationship but i have no idea how she will react

Answer #1

Be open with her. Sit her down, just the two of you one day and say it. Seeing how you’re only 14, I think she will not be happy. I’m 14 and I know my mom would kill me if I did anything yet. Chances are she will say no, however if you keep on having sexual relations explain to her that you want to be safe and make sure nothing will happen, maybe then she’ll think about it and say yes.

Answer #2

Um. Your 14. Why would you do such a thing, as to loose the only thing thats truley only yours ?

Answer #3

just tell ur mom and she will understand but the sexual relations are a bad idea cuzeven on the pill u can still have a possibility of ecoming pregnant my cousin did the same thing when she was 14 and she wasnt allowd to get the pill so two yrs later she has 2 boys logan and alexander and 1 girl jaydyn do u really want to end up having kids at 14 thats something u have to think about

Answer #4

lol im not 14 there was an error when i made the account im attually 16 (not much difference tho)

Answer #5

My dad just asked one day “are you a virgin” and I said No. I didnt lie. I was straight forward. Not embarassed of my actions.

Answer #6

I didn’t … I just told her I was pregnant, and then … well … she kind of figured it out.

Answer #7

i lost mine when i was almost 16, and she already knew for some reason. she sat ME down and said (mind 15 at the time) “ I know your doing stuff that a 15 year old shouldn’t”. all i know is my face dropped. then she put me on birth control. Probably the smartest choice my mother could have made. i”m 20 now and still haven’t gotten pregnant still on birth control and waiting for children,

Answer #8

you want to tell your mom youve had sex so you can go on the pill to build a closer relationship with her :|

if you are indeed 16 then your an adult and you dont need to tell her anything. you can just make an appointment at your local family planning or with your gp and get prescribed the pill.

alright mom how you doing, oh by the way i had a shag last night, oh and i want to go on the pill :D

can you see how ridiculous it sounds.

just get the pill on your own, im sure she doesnt want to hear about her daughters sex life.

Answer #9

16 is not a legal adult. 18 is. 16 is just the age you can move out of your home at. and when your parents can kick you out.

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