How can I tell mum about how I miss dad?

Hey im 13 and my dad left when I was 2 I never seen him since I miss him so much but I dont dare tell mum cus I act like I have lots of confidence but actually im really shy…he also has another daughter who I aint seen id like to know if she still see’s him his name is chris…please help me I miss him so much I’ve already spent 11 years not nowing him he’s gonna miss out on me growing up I really want to be able to say “I love you daddy” and there is an answer <3

Answer #1

look I know what you mean my dad batted my mum with wood when she was carrying me and I dont know who me dad is I know its hard just sit her down and ask her mabey there is a reason behide it just ask if you dont you wont know

Answer #2

bless you hun :( TALK TO your MUM!! if you dont it wont make you feel any betta it really wont talk it through with her and say that you would like to see him maybe start off slowley like emailing him every few weeks and seeing him at important occasions hope this helps

Answer #3

hi , im thirteen to and I have deffinettly been there too. my mom left when I was young and I finally saw here in september of last year . but I chose not to tell my dad . totally not worth it ! IM SEROUIS . he lost all trust of me . just say mom , “I want to see my father , and I want to see him now . its not fair not being able to say hi daddy . or anything . I know you know how to come about that , so do it . “ take control girrrlllyy , I got youu. please lettmeknoow what happennnss .

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