I know somewhat how you feel when I told my aunt I was Pansexual. Many kids or teens even adults are afraid to tell their parents about being bi gay pan or les, and in all honesty you have every right to be scared. When I told my aunt my heart raced and my palms started sweating because that is the moment where love can turn into hate or just stay the same. I feel you should tell them where YOU are most comfortable. Even if this means you have them sit on a cactus, no in all seriousness tell them in a comfortable, safe, private place. And no beating around the bush just tell them. The worst they will do right then and there is ask questions. I wish you luck and hope to hear about it soon.
Why do you feel the need to tell them? What difference will it make wether they know your sexual preference right now? Why do you, or anyone here, think this is something to announce? I'm just asking because I'm puzzled - not judging, just don't understand. To me, it would be like letting my parents know what sexual positions my husband and I favored the most.
Or do you plan on bringing home a same-sex person and holding hands with them while you're talking to your parents? If that's the case, I suppose I do understand...
First, decide that it's definitely the right time for you to come out, make sure that you don't feel pressured to. I'd recommend either asking for both of them to sit and talk to you and tell them or get one on their own, depending on how you think they'd react. Remind them that you need their love and support now and that this isn't an easy time for you.
you don't need to tell it to them it's your own decision and nobody can change it even if it's your mum or dad so you can keep it inside if you get nervous when you think about telling them that you're a bisexual but if you will tell them don't forget that it's your choice and they must respect
well i'm not bi, but i would just sit my parents down tell the 'mom dad. i need to talk to you about something serious'. then just tell them. just remember you are who you are and you cant change that .
they are your parents, they will love you no matter what you do or what your choices are. Just tell them. I'm sure it will be ok! Hope things go well for you x
