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How do I tell my dad about my older boyfriend?

I’m 19 years old (20 next month) and I have a boyfriend who is 44. I did not go looking for this relationship it just happened. I know some people see this as “morally wrong”, but I feel if we are happy together than our ages shouldn’t matter. I understand that in 20 years from now he’ll be in his 60’s when I’m only in my 40’s, but he is young at heart and I couldn’t ask for someone more perfect for me.

So, my question is; how do I tell my dad about my boyfriend who is older than he is?

I have been seeing him for 6 months now and I believe he’s the one for me. My mom’s side of the family knows and doesn’t approve of the age difference, but agrees he is a very successful, responsible, respectful guy. I’m just afraid of my dad disowning me. If anyone has any ideas, please help.

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Answer #1

ew

Answer #2

That is wrong. Ew was my reaction, though it’s pretty immature to straight-out say it. Age does still matter after you’re 18. Also keep in mind that most relationships with significant age differences end badly.

Answer #3

nothing wrong with age if you are over 18 its your life!its hard to find someone good nowadays so if your happy and he is happy thats all that matters!

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