Can my mum have my baby son taken from me if I've done nothing wrong?

I had to move in with my mum when my son was 7 weeks old because his dad couldnt handle a baby,since moving in she has hit me 4 times when she loses her temper and i have said i will move in with my dad and she says if i do she will have my baby taken away from me,i know she will never hurt my son but if i leave im scared she will be able to have my baby removed.

Answer #1

she can’t if you didn’t harm the baby.but she can’t make up false allegations and get in trouble.if she has hit you report it to the police so that they are aware of the situation and on your side before your mom talks to them someday.so sorry about your situation . :/ gosh

Answer #2

I was going to go to the police but she keeps saying they wont believe me because i lied about being sexually abused(i didnt lie) and i have no evidence that she hit me which i dont and she says and i quote ‘who are they going to believe,me a district nurse or you,your nothing but an idiot’.

Answer #3

Well if you want evidence, just record the abuse. Hide the camera or what ever you have, and place it where it can capture the whole room or scene when it happens. Then you can go to the police with evidence.

Answer #4

Call child protective agency to investigate if you know nothing has been done bad to harm your baby.

Answer #5

You are an adult, she cannot do anything to have your baby taken away unless you actually hurt your baby.. which you didn’t.. I say move out by yourself into an apartment, demand child support/expenses from the father (which you are totally entitled to) and go on a benefit while you are sorting yourself out. Get a part time job if you can- you could put the child in daycare for 2-3 mornings a week when it’s slightly older. It will be hard but I think you need to get your baby out of this abusive environment.

Answer #6

Your mother is abusive and like most abusive people is attempting to control you by blackmailing you. If she calls CPS, they may investigate, and with no evidence of wrong doing, they will leave. Just leave. They can’t do anything. And how do you know she wouldn’t hurt your baby. I wouldn’t trust my pet in her care. And if you continue to live with her, you are going to cause harm to your child. Just like a mother who continues to live with an abusive spouse, a mother who continues to live with an abusive parent is causing harm to the child. Get out now, before she can hurt your child.

Answer #7

Firstley: very sorry about your situation secondly: if you haven’t done anything wrong and she has taken you to court they shouldn’t say that your mum can have your baby as you have done nothing to harm your baby or any other person around the time you had the baby. :)

Answer #8

Firstley: very sorry about your situation secondly: if you haven’t done anything wrong and she has taken you to court they shouldn’t say that your mum can have your baby as you have done nothing to harm your baby or any other person around the time you had the baby. :)

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