Mom problems with boyfriend

Ohk, I need some help, me and my boyfriend have been together since october 17 and in november my mom found out he sent me some sexual txt msgs, and she told him to leave me alone,then in january she found more and she called the cops and we arent supposed to have anything to do with each other, she used to like him, now she doesnt, but his mom likes me and his dad isnt sure about me but he comes over here all the time and we hang out in the woods down by the creek,, she doesnt know weve been together all this time but,,he wants to apologize to her but im not suposed to be talking to him so I cant tel her what he wants,,, how do I get her to like him again? She use to love him he’d come over all the time and we’d hang out. She would take us places and now she wont even talk about him… Help me plzz

Answer #1

No mother will approve of their children “doing” anything before 18.

Most don’t approve of it after, either.

Simple answer - don’t send each other that, and /delete your inbox regularly/.

Hide your phone so your mom isn’t spying on you.

Answer #2

This may or may not sound confusing…

You could perhaps… start off by introducing him, as a new person… start talking about how you met ‘A’ guy, whom you adore… and state all the attributes your mum might be interested in… then go on to how you feel about him… soften her down a little…

Then hopefully lead your mum to a point where she’ll want to meet this guy… and make her promise that she will not cause any trouble… And until you get to this point do not tell her this is the guy…

I have been thinking… and I won’t encourage you to lies… but if she asks for a name… I’m not sure what you should do… try talking to him about it… find solutions together…

Besta Luck x
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Answer #3

oh your 14 well She is just trying to protcect you she wont want yo udoing anything stupid like getting pregnaut at that age.

Answer #4

im 14 and hes 14, he’l be 15 in september and ill be 15 in november..but the thing is, she will call the cops and have him arrested if he comes over she tried last time but then decided not to, and she tried to send me to ydc cause of him,is what she says

Answer #5

depends how old you are if you are under 16 then she is just trying to protect you talk to her about being over protective and ask her if you can see him again in her companie then gradually ask for time alone

Answer #6

Well if you like him that much invite him around while your mum is in and get her to sit down and listen to what he has to say. If your mum is not happy with that your going to have to tell her that you love him and she is not going to get in the way of you and him and she is going to have to grow up and deal with it.

Answer #7

hes guna try to talk to her

Answer #8

oh wow I thought this would help and now because of my age I get bs

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