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What if I got married and my man is messing up?

what do I do?I got married 6 months ago and my man said he would change but he hasnt and now has landed himself in jail this deeply hurt me then I find out a week ago that he cheated with his best mates wife she confronted me and told me my mind feels like it wants to explode its like he was everything to me and he blew it away how and what do I do deep deep down I still care but I cant help it I wont be able to trust him again …now also I am having feelings for a women she confronted me and told me shes liked me for 4 years but never toook things futher see im in middle of all this we having fun sex now but what happens should or is this cheating on hubby as he wanted us to do things together when he was around.now should I just continue on as I have very strong feeling for this young babe and its confusing me more this is why I asked what is inlove and love whats the differnce I need a lot help someone what should I do with all this please help

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Answer #1

D not be confused. Make sx with your husband, with this lady, 3 together, and let your husband to visit his best friend’s wife. If you like the best friend make sx with him also. This is better then torturing yourself with this deep deep deep pain.

Answer #2

Dear confusedaboutlove, We can never change others and we should never marry or date someone who we want to change but you did…were you never told this was wrong? Having fun sex…with or without your husbands permission is definitely wrong, wrong, wrong…were you never told this either? This is cheating and if you were doing it for his benefit that alone probably would break up the marriage. He cheated on you as well…so why would you trust each other? You both need counselling badly. I’m sure you will be told to get separate counselling first to figure out why you both are behaving the way you have been. Then once you both get things figured out for yourselves then they will no doubt suggest marriage counselling. By then hopefully you both will be thinking clearer. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

One word, three times: D-VORCE! D-VORCE! D-VORCE!

Answer #4

^ idiot ^

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