Sex with married man

Hi colethky are you going to stay with your husband

Nah colethky was speaking to sweetaspie I believe :)

You’re talking to me? Of course I wouldn’t want to sleep with a married person…

I haven’t done that… I’m 19, so I haven’t had many opportunities anyway, haha!

Yes I have BUT I didn’t know she was married!

No..and I won’t

Why would you want to? Do you have any idea of how many lives that would affect? You would be breaking up a family…it not only hurts the wife/husband but also the kids, other family members and friends. My husband just cheated on me (he says nothing happened…as if I’m stupid enough to believe him) but he hurt me, my kids, my parents, his dad, his sisters, our friends, my brothers…everyone that knows him. He lost a lot in doing this and he’s realized that it wasn’t worth it…that the girl was basically just a wh*re looking for a good time (his words…of course mine too). Now he has cut all contact with her and the pathetic girl keeps calling him and getting a major ear full from me…how would you like to be in that situation? It’s never ok to sleep with a married person, even if they say they are separated…don’t believe them, a lot of times they will lie to get what they want.

Ah situations like that are really difficult. Children do make this kind of thing particularly difficult. Are you in any kind of financial position that would allow you to live independently of your husband? If you cannot love him then that status of ‘wife’ doesn’t seem suitable. Some people take their relationships for granted and seem to forget that they have something special that so many others will never find in life (and it’s selfish). Talk to your husband and if things don’t seem to change I would recommend filing for divorce. As you would know a divorce does not prevent you from living under the same roof, but I think severing that romantic tie might be the responsible option.

Really sorry to hear about that :(…