How to break my pregnancy to the man I love?

wOw.. that is hard. im sorry to hear about your situation first of all.. we all tend to make desicions that we later on (some quicker than others) regreat. okay now about your questions..

how do I break this to the man I love? how should I expect him to react.

-honestly..its worth a shot..if he loves you a lot…and wants to forgive you he will but since your pregnant and its not his kid..I cant guarantee that he will accept you back in most cases..(I dont mean to bring you down) a guy is not willing to accept a woman who has already a kid of some other guy..but thats some part..maybe he’s not that type..expect him to react..speechless I suppose..I would.

and what should I expect from the father? I know he loves me AS A FRIEND, but thats really it . . . like I said, it was casual.

-from the father..(dont mean to bring you down again) I say dont expect anything from hiim if he loves you AS a friend..expect him to only be..there..not to help out much.. and dont get your hopes up on him supporting you as he has a wife and another child to attend to..(no offense), and yes you did mess up bc he is a married man with a child..and this situation may tense things up a lot but if your point of view is keeping the baby which I totally support that decision..do it..its your responsability now..maybe you both can learn something from it..it was wrong for him to do that to his family.

what do I do?

-well like I said..just live up to the expectations that this future baby is gonna need to have from you and keep the little one..dont abort..its a life..and its a choice..urs of course..but fill up the responsiblity for your actions..break it to the man you love about what happened..and hopefully he will understand and forgive u..

my best of wishes -belle