love troubles, advice needed a lot please, x

Right so theres this boy, James, he used to go out with my best mate like three months ago, for about three days, and they had never met or liked each other all that much.

Then James added me on a social site, we used to talk but not a lot: he always used to say hello baby first, then you okay babe, then what you babey, then im bored help me babe and so on… Of course I talked back because O wasn’t being rude and I didn’t not like him I just didn’t know him really.

But then it got more talking, staying up late together, and then I decided I liked him, weve never met but please dont judge me upon this. At first I just like him a bit, and then it got more, and then I dumped my boyfriend, and everything was all good and merry but he had a girlfriend but it dint really bother me we was still close talking all the time about being together and love and stuff

but now recently, as my like for him is still growing, I think hes ignoring me, he doesnt talk as much no matter how much I try to make convo, and now literally, he has been ignoring me

but then today he broke up with his girlfriend and I asked why and he sed for me and you and that he loves me

but I dont understand, why is he being like this to me, ignoring me, making me feel unwanted, I have cried so much other it over the last few days, like today I was telling my mate how I feel and bursted out in tears.

then we came to the conclusion I should just leave him, if he wants to talk to me he will, but then I wanted to know why he broke up with his girlfriend, then he tolded me he loved me, leading me on.

I dont know what to do because the bottom line is I think im in love with him.

what should I do next sorry for the length please help me id apreciate it, SO much x

Answer #1

ok so he was ignoring you because his ex probably told him he couldnt talk you because you guys were so close. I’ve had that happen before. and you shud just work it out with him ask him why he ignored you and if he does “love” you then he will tell you the truth.

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