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Should I go live with my Dad?

well my parents are divorced and I can go live with my dad if I want to,but my mom is going to be lonely, but she is so strict and mean, sometimes I just want to run away from my house , shes cruel to me and I think she doesnt love me or I say why is she like this and she treats me the way her mom treated her and I have to pay =( what should I do, go live with my dad or keep taking it?

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Answer #1

katydid747 is right , talk to her , she might suffer if you leave …

Answer #2

I say that you need to sit down and have a talk with your mom… no yelling, no fighting, just to talk about the situation and see how it can be made better, if it can’t be made better then I would consider living with your dad. you have to be honest with your mom and let her know that you are unhappy. Most likely she is unhappy and that is why she is being so strict and mean because she wants to be in complete control of someone since she is divorced.

Answer #3

I just went through this in november I know what its like with a parent like that THIS IS NOT A HEALTHY SITUATION I cant move out till the end of the school year but I would if I could .Heres the deal your mom has her own issuses this is not your fault dont feel guilty emotional abuse is not okay in some ways its even worse than physical abuse because the pain doesnt go away. I say live with your dad

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