Can I go live with my birth dad even though im adopted!!??

ok so im adopted can cant stand it here all we do is fight I’ve been to juvi twice because I beat my adopted mom because she does everything to piss me off and my adopted dad is dead to me because he was never there and I just want to get out of herre and I know all you people say Well its going to get better your a teen well I dont want to hear it because it hasnt gotten better… since I was in 2nd grade. all I want to know is can your birth parents get you back somehow??? I want to go live my birth dad because we get along so well… so can I go back to my birth parents??

Answer #1

I dont understand? surely your adoptive parents would cherish you to pieces because they chose to have you, they obviously wanted a child a great deal. why dont you get on with them? I think you should also think about who you may be hurting your dad hasnt always been there for you and your adoptive parents took you in and chose to look after you. if you really want to live with your dad talk to your adoptive parents about it.

Answer #2

you cant live with your birth father because he has no legal right anymore there is no way to unadopt a child only if your adoptive parent are beatting or neglecting you then the court would relincuish there parental rights

Answer #3

You beat your own mother? What type of person are you. If you really want to move out do it. but I would probably also have fought with you if I were them, you sound really mean and disrespectful.

Answer #4

yeah I don’t think hitting your mother is a good idea. these people wanted you in their family. now I don’t know you or them but you clearly don’t like these people if you loved them you never would behave that way. its very disrespectful and every mother needs respect its not an easy job. If its really as bad as it sounds then you should try to find somewhere else. no reason for all involved to be unhappy. good luck

Answer #5

second comment was a bit harsh on her to be honest. the girl wants help not a lecture, not being harsh or anything like. but if she wants to be with her birth dad, then thats what she wants to do.! I think you should try and go for it :D if your having contact with your dad, then speak to him about it and see what he says if he agrees to it then, speak to your adopted parents and explain that you think its best for you to be with him. x

Answer #6

why would yuo hate your adopted parents? those people took you in when your real parents rejected you and raiised you and paid for your everything. sounds like you need to chill out

Answer #7

maybe if your birth parents want to take you back and I feel really bad 4 u

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