Im just not ready

so why don’t you want t have sex?

scarry?

and just tell him that you dont want 2 do it because of that.. if he ain’t that stupid he wont dropped you

you are so young! you should definitely wait until you are older. I am fourteen too. I don’t have a bofriend b/c I don’t want to get into any situations that I could regret. this guy may be a great guy but if he keeps pushing this sex thing I would break up with him because if he is bugging you about this and won’t leave you alone then maybe he’s not the guy that you thought he was. maybe he is just one of those sex crazy guys who use their good looks and good qualities to just have fun and leave you with the bad end of the deal. of course this isn’t always the case so I guess you would have to figure out his motives… sorry if this doesn’t help but just thought I’d say something…

Just reinforce that you don’t want to have sex yet and see if he is willing to wait. He’ll either be happy to wait, or will dump you and look for sex elsewhere

I don’t know this guy so I don’t know his motives but he sorta sounds like one of those guys who just uses girls to have fun and then goes on to the next one… I’m fourteen too and I don’t have a boyfriend b/c I want to avoid any situations like the one you’re in. and other things I could do that would have regret written all over them. sex is very serious. I am going to wait until I am married b/c I am going to have sex only with my husband. 14 is very young and I think it’s sad that kids our age have to think about this kind of stuff… I don’t think any girl is ready to have sex when she is fourteen. so if I were you I would tell this guy to either back off and if he won’t then he doesn’t deserve you because obviously he doesn’t like you or love you enough to respect what you think is right for you… because everybody is different. hope this helps. and I don’t want to offend you… :) tedda14

I think you just have to tell him straight up where it’s at. Say “I really care about you, but I’m not going to have sex with you yet and my opinion isn’t going to be changing anytime soon. Please stop pressuring me.”

As much as you don’t want to hear this, if he respects you and your opinion, he will stop. If he doesn’t, you deserve better. Simple as.

Just tell him straight that you want to wait a while longer before you “do it” and that you’d appreciate it if he wouldn’t try to pressure you into it. Tell him that if he has any feelings for you he’ll respect your decision to wait, but if he keeps pressuring you then tell him that maybe you both need to split up and re-evaluate why you’re in this relationship to begin with.