What do I do, I feel like im ready for sex, but should I finger?

Well I don’t think you’re ready for sex if you don’t know how exactly your genitalia works.

Fingering, if you do it the way thats best for you, probably will give you an orgasm and surpress your horny moods. The barrier of tissue is called the hymen, if you try picking at it then it’s going to tear and probably bleed. Don’t worry, this happens and it’s nothing to worry about. Your hymen doesn’t cause much pain, the reason intercourse hurts for the first time is because the vaginal walls are being stretched to fit the penis. If you’re aroused then your vagina will excrete a natural fluid (aka: vaginal lube) to aid in penetration. Some girls get a lot, some don’t, just in case, bring some water based lubricant when you’re fingering yourself. When you’re aroused your vaginal muscles will relax and allow for penetration to be a lot more pleasing. On the other hand, if you’re nervous then that just adds problems.

I don’t think you’re ready for sex, you still have a lot to learn about it and you should probably wait. If you can’t be open with your boyfriend then you’re not ready for sex. You should be able to talk to him about this and you both should educate yourself on it and see then if you’re ready for it. Sex isn’t just purely pleasure and ecstacy, you can get pregnant, contract STDS and STIS and this isn’t even half of the problems that can happen.

You should also know that no form of contraceptive is 100% on preventing pregnancy. That’s one very important thing to keep in mind, nor are contraceptives effective at preventing infections, STDS and STIS. If you still feel you’re ready after learning about sex, then by all means, go at your own risk. Until then I fully oppose the idea.