When my girlfriend wants to have sex but I dont know if im ready?

ok you are young im sorry I sound like every other older person who thinks they know it all and what not but I dont think you should have sex its a very important thing and its not common for someone so young to stay with the person that they like for the rest of their life I think you should only have sex with someone who you can invision a happy life with you know so if you accidentally made a baby that baby wouldnt be brought into the same thing a lot of babies are brought into im sure you knoe the reason people have sex isnt supposed to be for pleasure or fun its an important experience believe me im 17 I lost my virginity at 16 I let myself gain more self control by waiting I think you should tell her you should wait bringing sex into a relationship doesnt always have an enormous affect on your life but the younger you are the stronger a grip it has on you its nice to have sex but its better when youre truely and irrevokably in love so I really recommend waiting who knows maybe youll still be together in a few years and you can decide it then if you need to talk more im always open to helping -Cyn

if you are really only 14, still is young. im 14 and I have had sex, and speaking from experience, we are young.. trust me.. if you want to do it you will def. be able to find a way.. and trust me you will like having it, but make sure you guys def. want to first. you can always do other things besides totally going through with sex