How do I tell my family im bi?

Well, the easy approach would be just not to tell them. If you decide to, there is no way to do it that will overcome their biases, and you risk being alienated from them. If that’s a risk you’re willing to take, then I would start by just asking them what you would have to do for them to disown you. If they say “we’ll accept you no matter what”, then tell them you now worship the dark Lord Satan. After the shock and horror sets in, tell them you’re kidding, and that really you’re just bi.

Just sit them down at dinner or when everyone is talking about things just tell them well I been wanting to tell you all that I am bi and I have been bi for a minute now and I just want you guys to accept me for who I am

I agree with the above, and let them know that their comments and what not wont change your mind. you are who you are adn that is that! ask them to be more open to it, because you still want to be close with the family. Oh and if they try and send you to counseling then things are in your favor, because counselors actually except different sexualities!

just try your best to come out and say it you will be a lot happier

do you actually HAVE to tell them? if you feel this uncomfortable telling them, then maybe just wait a while.

Sit them all down and just come out with it!! Trust me you will feel a lot better

IM AN ADULT NOW and DEY CANT MAKE ME GO TO COUNSELING

BUT MY FAMILY ARE REALLY DIFFICULT TO TALK TO… ITS JUST NOT THAT EASY FOR ME