What to do when I'm 27, 5'7'', 148lbs, and too fat for my husband?

Well I dont think the issue is with you being fat because I personally dont think you are fat. You are healthy. It sounds as if there are some underlining issues happening with your husband and we all know that we as humans take out our stress and aggressions on the people who are the closest to us. Now I’m not going to lie. Your husband is wrong in how he treats you but you are wrong too. You shouldnt get lost in this and feel as if ALL you can do is cook and clean. You have to have time for yourself to do somethings you like to do and if your are happy wth your weight you should show it. Flaunt it! But if you have some issues with your weight and you show those concerns your husband may be taking ques from you. I wish you all the best of luck.

I know how you feel my husband tells me all the time if I love him I would lose the weight. He tells me Im fat and my body is disqusting even when I think I look good he has to point out my belly. He is stressing me out so bad. I have four children and have been with my husband for 14 years and love him no matter what. He always complains about my weight and my clothes and my hair. Im 33 years old I weight 170 and I am 5’6 I might be a little over weight but I am not fat or ugly. I tell him all the time im not 19 anymore Im a women now.

Luvvie there is no easy way to say this bt your husband sounds like a jerk Im 190 and 5”7. I need to lose 20 lbs for my brothers wedding (death) So even then I would be 170 and that would make me obese in your hubbys eyes:O Tell him how you feel and if he doesnt like it tell him to F**k off!Rite Best of luck x

no!!! this is not a very good husband at all i am just 15 years old but i no he shouldnt be treating u like this u really need to put ur foot down and tell hin that this is bothering u and to leave u alone or go loose some weight himself ( i am sorry i am not trying to call ur husband fat cause i have no rigth to do that this is just an example)… well i hope ive helped

oh and one more thing i forgot to mention lol u are not fat = )

In the picture of you and Allan you look great! He couldn’t be further from being right about all men in regards to house wives. In my opinion, I think any man who tells his wife she is fat and constantly criticizes her is extremely rude and is jeopardizing his marriage. If I were to tell my wife she was fat and criticize her housework, I seriously doubt if she would take it more than twice but I’d never do that even if it were true. (BTW, my wife isn’t fat, not at 5’-2” & 112 lbs) Ignore the criticism! You don’t deserve it and it definitely isn’t true. He probably wants you to stay home so you won’t be hit on by other men and if you were in the work place you would get hit on by a whole lot of men. (do they use that term in Canada; “hit on”?)

That is ridiculous! Don’t let him talk to you like that! You shouldn’t have to clean all day and then get yelled at! I’m 13 and I’m 155 lbs and 5’6”. My sister which are my half sisters are really skinny and tan! I have a different dad who is half peruvian so im going to be built differently. I’m not fat and I know that. My grandma sisters and mom always remind not to think im skinny or beautiful. Its not fair or right but I just keep my head held high and know that when I turn 18 I can escape to college. So you should do the same keep your head held high and if he keeps bringing you down then leave!

It sounds like you married a prick…

Losing weight because he said so, is the WRONG reason to do it. If you’re happy with who you are, there’s no need. You don’t need to lose weight, you need to lose HUSBAND!