How can I approach my husband about controlling my taste?

I’m a young lady of 27 years and married for 7 years now. I have a son. My husbands loves me but I noticed since some time that he keeps on pinpointing about my taste (especially of clothes, and when choosing other stuffs). I’m making considerable efforts to make him appreciate me but sometimes, I ask myself if it’s a normal attitude that he’s having towards me and if I need to discuss about this with him, how I should make the approach?

Answer #1

First of all,when you got married he liked your body and cloth style. What happen know. I tell you this, you need work out in gym and be trim and sexy. You watch ,your husband will be loving you. Take him for a romentic trip. Give him few hours of good sex. You should charge your love live. Good Luck

Answer #2

Dear vinella, You stated this has been happening for a while…so I’m assuming it wasn’t always this way. What has changed in the relationship and when? What was happening around this time. When we become critical of others it is usually because we are not happy with something inour lives. This a great time to sit with him and discuss your relationship. A great exercise is once a month sit at a table with some comfort food and the topic is our relationship over the past month. Always remember to use I when speaking such as I feel that we are drifting apart because, I feel that things are changing because etc. etc. Opening the lines of communication is only the true way to find out what is on his mind and what can be done about it. Sue….good luck

Answer #3

You are an individual and have your own opinion, if your husband doesnt agree with your opinion on some things that doesnt matter and you shouldnt change yours, you dont have to agree on everything and if he has different taste to you then dont worry about it, agree to disagree but if he is making you change your dress sense and so on you should tell him to let you live your own life and have your own style. Becos he doesnt own you.

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