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Recently I got a message from a guy who was offering money for pictures. He was mostly looking for locals he is learning photography and loves to photograph women...a regual guy thing LOL. Ok so anway What caught my eye is 1. His email was not rude or harrasing and polite. 2. The pictures were not for profit and he would provide in writing that they would never be published or use for any public viewing. He wrote in a way that you knew that the photgraphs would not always have clothing involved. The email also stated that you must be over 18. I was curious so I emailed him back and told him I was not eighteen but that the email had caught my eye. I was really surprised to get an email back appologizing profusely for sending it to me that he did not intend for anyone under eighteen to get it. (I lied on my profile on that site LOL) So he said no thank you that he would never ever allow anyone underage to be involved in nude or sexually insinuated photography. In fact he sorta admonished me for answering his email. Well I kept emailing him a bit talking to him about what he does, and he simply loves pretty women he keeps the pictures for himself and is learning photography when someone is close enough for him to do the shoots. You can tell he sees it as art. He pays them pretty well but is very particular. What he likes is that by not publishing or letting anyone see them but himself is that he can get models that no one has or will ever see.So to him he has something unique as a one of a kind gem(I got all of this in email discussion with him) He has actually only accepted ten out of hudereds that have wanted to work with him. He pays from 50-100 an hour if they are local and he does the phtographing and different prices for different things when he can't. ANYWAY so I confronted him about why if it is about art and such why he would not be interested in someone under 18 that can't be nude and such. He considered that and agreed that perhaps it might be a nice challenge if he could find a few younger models that would not be able to do innapropriate stuff for their age. So I sent him a few pictures of me and he liked what he saw and has had me do some pictures for him. He tells me what he wants and do my best by myself to accomodate him. I don't want to let someone else do the pictures...well I might some time I don't get naked, I don't do anything bad or anything. In fact he said that if I ever sent him a picture that showed the wrong things that he would delete it and no longer be able to work with me. The first shoot I tried to do was horrible LOL I told him what clothes I owned and things and he told me what to wear and what pictures to do...they were pretty bad but he wired me 25 dollars none the less for my time. I have done one more now for him trying to do it myself is hard, the most unclothed he asked for was some shots in my bikini but I wear that all over the place so that isn't innapropriate and he was a little not sure if he should let me but checked with his attorney and he said that it was fine as long as it was artistic in nature and not used for sexual purposes...I guess what I want to know is what do you think about this? Like I said he is not pushy, he is not rude, he never says sexual things and never asks for any pictures like that...do you think this is ok to be doing? He almost wouldn't do it unless I got my parents permission but I got him to LOL. And the bonus is he is a REALLY nice guy and answers questions I have too that I would probably not ask others. I have introduced him to three friends under age he turned them all down because they didn't fit his likes I guess. He says that there has to be something there something that catches his eye. I also introduced him to a few eighteen year olds that were willing to do nudes only because they would never be seen by anyone but him and how serious he takes that. He would not show me any of the pictures he has done of the few he has accepted. He said that would be outside of his agreement and unethical...You think this is ok? I got 50 dollars for the second shoot that I did but I think he was just being nice cause they were not so good either. He gets a lot of girls that try out and interview with him but has a hard time finding what he is looking for. From what I gather he likes thin and or petitie innocent sweet looking types as his favorite but also has a few that he said were punkish and such...anyway let me know what you think about this arrangment please would you do it???