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When I do something like that, is it very wrong?

Okay so I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. And he’s cute, nice and funny and stuff, but he always wants to do stuff with me, that im not that into. Im an honor student in highschool, and considered to be very descent and respected person. Anyways just recently he’s been trying to finger me, and I wasnt really into it, so I resisted for a long time, but he kept pushing and pushing, that I just didnt care anymore and gave in. I’ve never done anything sexual untill then, and im not proud of it , at all. He says he loves me and stuff, but I don’t know if he knows what real love is, because im pretty sure I dont love him, but I don’t know. Was it wrong of me to that? any advice or comments are appreciated, but please dont make me feel guiltier then I already am.

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Answer #1

I’d never make you feel guilty but if you urself are feeling like that and having regrets for letting him do that to you then you need to leave him whether he says he loves you or not. You know if he loves you then he wouldnt pressure you to do things that you werent ready to. if he’s not willing to wait then it wasnt meant to be.

Answer #2

Im not too sure if it was wrong unless you felt really uncomfortable and he was hurting you. yes you are right that he doesn’t he doesnt know what love is but more importantly he doesnt understand when you tell him no is no.

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