I want too have an affair

I agree with skatedaddy; Haveing a affair isn’t the answer … I wouldn’t suggest that type of hurt. I would try to ask him if he still loves you and could you have more sex life and more communicateion if not then seek a marriage counslor are a laywer for a divorce. Dont be unhappy in a relashinship. And dont be scared to ask questions after 32 years of marriage you should be able to talk about anything. Good luck.

well, I can relate cause I am also 32 & at my peak. My husband is the same age, but he works all the time. So basically I am sexually deprived. Have ya'll tried viagra? Do you still love him? If so, then you should find different ways to make your sex life better. But if you don't, then go for it!!!

I totally understand how you’re feeling. I’ve been married to my husband for 14 years and I’m not attracted to my husband like I once was. There’s this guy who I am REALLY ATTRACTED to. And I believe he’s attracted to me, too. But I haven’t taken the next step, because I feel really guilty. I think about this other guy constantly. I feel like I’m going to go crazy, if I don’t tell this other guy how I feel. Then I think about my husband who is really good to me and I feel like a real snake. Somedays I feel like I could never do it, then I’ll see him and I feel I could definetely see myself having an affair with him. I’m stuck in the same boat as you. I confided to one of my friends and she believes I should follow my dreams and have the affair, but I don’t know how I would feel if it ever really happened. Could I live with myself? Let me know what you decided to do. Good luck!!

Man I wish I was married to either of you. I am 35 and can't get my wife to have sex more then once a month. I am not that out of shape and treat her very well. She just is not interested right now and so I feel like I am going to explode. My advice to you is don't have the affair. If you are unhappy get divorced and then find someone new. I would venture to guess the guy from the internet will not pan out but you never know.

Look if you just wanting someone to tell you to go for it .. the GO FOR IT!.. you wont feel guilty.. I didn’t at least. Married 12 years three kids.. it has only added to our relationship.

I’m feelin the same way latly. My boyfriend is a work- aholic. The problem is I pay all the bills and the rent, as well as everything our two children need. I feel like I should have more and recently thinking about meeting up with a man I use to see. Mostly because I know he could satisfy me more then my significant other. I believe I should leave him and move on but that involves custody battles and paper work. So an affair to fix my needs seems to be the next best thing. So scared tho!!!