I think my relationship is dying

hi,

Im not sure if this is going to help, but sometimes you need to do the old ‘cliche’ and let him sort himself out. Personally, from a male point of view it is obvious that the “reasons” hes away from you are trivial. Now im not sure about your personal situation whether your still at school or in the workforce but If the love was strong on his half wouldnt he make you involved in his job hunting?

I think your right about hes cheating ways… why would he need to constantly re-assure you of his faithfulness. Im sorry if i sound so negative but i believe the world is a large circle…. what you give… you get, I have pushed away every one that meant something to me! Its ended with me very lonely. I used the lines your man has used but on that same note it would be very unfair to assume that he would be like me. You sound like you love him so maybe you could confront him, ask him what youve just written above. ask him if hes seeing an ex. asking if he really loves you…. Im sure the answer is he loves you, if its not…. It will hurt, but darling its better to know now than down the track.

Best of luck gravis