Sometimes I think about how bad me and my boy are together, and that i would---

be better off without him. But then i remember how much I love him and that I would die without him. But our relationship is just so hard :/ its like we have to go day by day. Theres always something new..

Answer #1

That’s not a good sign. Relationships aren’t easy but it should be easy on some level at least. At your age, and I know you won’t like to hear this, relationships don’t really last and don’t really matter in the long run so you really need to think on whether it is worth it. Having to go day by day is a sign that there is a major problem in the relationship. If you really do want to fix it, the two of you, not just you, will have to get together, talk it out, compromise and try to fix it together. Talk about the problems, get to the root of it. Is there a recurring problem? What are the triggers to the fighting? When in a relationship, everything is a partnership, it is never just one person’s fault and it always takes two whether to create a problem or to solve one.

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